Build a better business through reciprocity

Call it the Golden Rule, the threefold law of return, Karma...every culture has it's version of Do Unto Others. Running a retail  business offers endless opportunities for beneficial mutual exchange with all kinds of people...vendors, customers, suppliers, staff, delivery people, neighbors, tech support: the question is - what are you going to do with it?

 
 It takes a relationship to make it work. Illustration by Constance Heffron. Happy Days, 1951 Allyn and Bacon

For me, part of the thrill of retail is being able to cultivate relationships. If I'm excited about a piece of art, a product, a service, a website, I want to get to know what, or who, is behind it. My first impulse is to write an email, make a phone call, write a blog post, send a note on facebook or twitter. If I like something I want to tell the world about it. But after a point, I really do need to be supported in kind.

It's been my experience that only a portion of the people I extend myself to bother to respond in kind. Do I understand why? Not really. I guess some people are just not connectors. Do I accept it? Yes. And move along.

I'm not quite snarky enough to tattle on those businesses who don't see generosity as part of their work ethic. The law of threefold return will bite them in the derriere eventually. If I like their products or services enough I might continue to use them, or sell them, but I won't go the extra mile to help publicize them. There's no juice in it.

But those who do... ah, the sweetness of mutual delight and support. Here's to the connectors.

Manufacturers:

Flashbags started in business the same time I did. We are all Burlingtonians. Our kids go to school together. I adore them, personally and professionally. We've always featured each other in promotions and events. Ali and Laura, now just Laura, are the most generous, enthusiastic co-conspirators a business could ask for. Flashbags are the staple of my retail business and I couldn't imagine retail life without them.

 
     

 

I was excited about Cardboardesign from the moment I found out about their products. I think I read about them on a design blog when they first started, and was one of their first wholesale accounts. Because I was so in love with their product I started blogging about them. Because their marketing director, David Rosenzweig is such a nice and cool guy, he started emailing me. His daughter even commented on this blog. Did I mention he knows Simon Doonan? (who has never contacted me, ahem...) And recently they quoted me on their new sales brochure. Was I excited? You bet. Does this translate to sales for me..and them? Of course. Why? Because the personal connection, the reciprocity, makes me want to work that much harder for them.

Canetti frames are, after Flashbags, my best selling product. It's always easy to sell a product I love so much. But when owner Nancy Halper and I started exchanging chatty emails, when she took the time to research and answer my questions, when she invited me to Linked In,  I knew there was a real person behind the product and that relationship spurred me to be even more excited to sell their beautiful, pure acrylic magnet frames. I'm sure that in the scope of things I'm not that big of an account for them. Au contraire. But Nancy always makes me feel special. At their booth the recent NYC gift show, Canetti featured my store advertising postcard in their frames. Yeah, it's a great card, looks super in their frames, and mentions them on the back. But they didn't have to do it. Again, wow. 

Tech Stuff:

I used to send gallery and shop announcement  email blasts via my website, which was cumbersome. Then I only used facebook, which is good but doesn't have any extra oomph. Then a few months ago I was blog surfing and someone mentioned Mad Mimi email marketing. I regret not remembering which blog, but a couple of days later I googled Mad Mimi, browsed their site, and decided to give them a try.

The MadMimi webpage was inspiring, their testimonials glowing. I decided to give it a try. Heck, I need to promote this store.  At some point while I was designing my first promotion I had a question, even though their design program is super easy to use. I emailed their tech support and ....right away someone was there, live, in real time, answering my questions. Patiently. Nicely. I mean, Hello!!...when does that happen??

But then there was a bigger bonus - besides my amazing and amazingly easy to design promotion. At  the Mad Mimi site they have a gallery of some of their clients and I decided my goal was to get into that gallery. They've got cool stuff there - great clients. I emailed and got a really sweet response from Gary, CEO and Founder.  We chatted about this and that...he lives in my old Brooklyn neighborhood..and yes, they loved my promotion and put it on their site. So...not only did I get super tech support, get to design and send a gorgeous email promotion, which my customers loved, but also they put me on their website. Again, sure, my promo was great... but that's the thing. They didn't have to. But they - Gary, Dean and the others on the team,  understand reciprocity, they are nice, down to earth folks running a savvy business. Part of their savviness is in their genuine customer relations. So, head on over to my side bar, click on the Mad Mimi logo, and get yourself an account. ----------->

Oh, and I get a kickback. How cool is that!! And you can sign up for my random, fun emails, on the sidebar. Courtesy of MadMimi.

Lijit i s a website search engine widgit. It's over on the righthand column of this blog. You can do word searches on it to find stuff on this blog. I can get stats. It's fun and cool. I saw it on another blog and decided to try it. Yes, it was easy to install, but again, I'm not really a tech wizard and I had a question. Or two, or three. Bazowie, I got a real, and really fast email in response from Tom, VP of operations. Smart, friendly, helpful, courteous, personable. I'm so impressed. He even figured out a way to get ligit onto my website, even thought lijit is primarily for blogs. And he made some other little tweaks, like image searches for this blog, because it is so image driven. Whatever question - and mine aren't always straightforward or specifically tech related - he's been willing to research and answer in a timely, smart and genuinely supportive way.

If you've ever tried to get tech support from web or blog providers, you know just how frustrating this can be, and how likely you are to get the response, "we got your question and will be back with you soon" and then you wait and wait - and wait - until you get an answer that confounds you even more. Not mentioning any names typepad.

Some tech support makes me want to gnash my teeth and tear out my hair, which makes my happiness with MadMimi and Lijit  even more impressive. So if you blog, and you want a fun and easy search engine widget, head over to Lijit.

Link some Love:

Love what someone's doing, selling, writing, designing? Send them some link love. Why not? Tweet them, it costs you nothing, and the goodwill you get back is astounding. Or post a link on Facebook. I'm new to the tweet world, an old hand at Facebook, and here's what I think: you can build community through links, tweets and retweets.

A while back, book designer and blogger Ian Shimkoviak tweeted a post of mine. I only knew because I followed the trail on sitemeter when I noticed a bump in readership. Then I wrote about him in my recent post on book covers. Then he tweeted that. And it was picked up by a couple of his followers. Again...wow. Today I tweeted MadMimi. They tweeted me. And tomorrow??? Maybe I'll tweet you. Or you'll tweet me.

Community

What it boils down to for me is more than the golden rule: in my mission statement I say that Pine Street Art Works is in business to build community  through retail. I am a fierce advocate for local neighborhood community building, but,  in addition, in this cyber age, neighborhood can be anywhere and everywhere. We build it one email, one tweet, one link at a time. Share the love.

And visit my online store to buy some of the great things I mentioned here.

                                                                                                           Flashbag

 

Comments

[keith]

agree about madmimi, its easy to use + they're helpful, friendly & supportive, an excellent combo if there ever was one. Like you I'd been doing email blasts from my list of students (i teach photo) & would often times send the same students multiple emails as my lists are un-organized & madmimi's mailing list management took care of that issue automatically. Started off with their free email service & in a short time I upgraded to their -affordable- pay for service.

[liza]

That's great Keith. List magagement is super, and I forgot to mention it. They do so much great service related stuff. And the design funcionality, which is so important to me, is just great.

Thanks for writing and I hope you will keep reading See Saw. Liza

[Joe Mescher]

Fantastic!

While there are definitely many folks who don't understand the finer points of networking for mutual benefit, it's great to meet the people who do.

What strikes me most about your writing is the approach to the relationship (not 'me, me, me' like so many people think 'networking' is about).

Anyhow, nice writing, thanks for the inspiration.

Joe

[liza]

Thanks Joe. Yeah, it's bizarre that people can think a network is only about one part of it (the "me" part.) That's not a network, it's a funnel. Network must imply reciprocity, interconnectedness.

Thanks so much for writing. It means a lot to me, and I've really been enjoying reading and learning from your blog and your tweet network.

[Tara Anderson]

Liza, thanks for the kind words about Lijit and for your continued support. We appreciate both.

As a small company, we understand the importance of taking care of our users. Without you, we'd have nothing to do! Also, feedback from Lijit publishers is how we improve our service, so if you (or any of your readers) have thoughts about our search, feel free to send them my way. I'm tara [at] lijit [dot] com.

[liza]

Hi Tara, thanks for responding. I love Lijit, and I hope some of my readers become customers.
cheers. Liza